tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4529100918767498816.post4521126467645003348..comments2012-04-08T18:36:39.386-07:00Comments on Behind the Lies: Fear, Recovery and Hope: Monday MusingsBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14780054106587057867noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4529100918767498816.post-17802186461645542312009-08-09T08:58:36.047-07:002009-08-09T08:58:36.047-07:00Hi, B!
It sounds like you are in a busy time! Thi...Hi, B!<br /><br />It sounds like you are in a busy time! This line really struck me, about your Mom: "But yet there is something about her that makes both my sister and I absolutely terrified of making her angry and/or disappointed."<br /><br />I can really relate to that. While I've totally written off my Dad and any perception he might have of me (yep, that's anger and hurt you hear talkin'), my Mom has such a strong hold over both my sister and I too. I don't know for sure, but I think that might be a little like going back to the source of my own codependence (like the Yoda of the big C) and trying not to get reminded of the lessons you've been taught. It's fairly impossible, right? <br />I'm curious about how others with lots more recovery handle their family of origin triggers, because I think this will be one of the hardest things to deal with, even as I get stronger in myself. <br /><br />Anyway-- I guess I wanted to say that I hear you, and good luck to us both? :)<br /><br />I hope you're well!<br />(the other:) BBernadinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05551640226103805937noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4529100918767498816.post-66471904646046214912009-08-06T12:16:30.781-07:002009-08-06T12:16:30.781-07:00Hi B,
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